‘What are we going to do?’ The mom of a trans teen grapples with Trump’s Medicaid move

For a mother in California known only as A.W., the morning news recently brought a familiar sense of dread. The Trump administration has finalized a policy ensuring that no federal dollars will be used to fund gender affirming care for children covered by Medicaid or the Children’s Health Insurance Program. For A.W., whose family relies on these programs after her husband lost his job and their health benefits, the decision is more than a political shift; it is a direct threat to her child’s well-being. Speaking on condition of anonymity due to fears that her family could be targeted by the government, she described a constant state of anxiety, wondering what else might be taken away from her children to keep them thriving.

The impact of this rule falls on a relatively small but vulnerable population. While many states have already passed individual bans on such care, roughly 130,000 transgender youth nationwide still reside in areas where treatment remains legal. However, for families living below the poverty line, losing federal funding makes that legality irrelevant if they cannot afford the bills. This transition has been particularly jarring for A.W., a lifelong Republican who never imagined her own family would find themselves dependent on food assistance and Medicaid, yet finds herself now pleading for the basic healthcare her child requires.

Legal experts say this move is unprecedented. Katie Keith of Georgetown University noted that she is unaware of any other instance where the federal government has prohibited funds for a specific patient population based solely on a particular diagnosis. While some states may choose to use their own budgets to fill the gap left by the federal government, it remains unclear how many will actually do so. Meanwhile, administrators like Dr. Mehmet Oz have defended the move, arguing that the evidence supporting such procedures is too weak for taxpayers to continue footing the bill.

Beyond the policy changes, advocates warn that the administration is engaging in a broader campaign to intimidate medical professionals. Through reports and documentaries like Wolves in White Coats, which feature stories of detransitioned youth and allege fraudulent billing by doctors, critics argue the government is stoking fear within the healthcare community. Lindsey Dawson of KFF suggests this atmosphere of intimidation is working, noting that many hospitals are shuttering their gender programs not because clinical best practices have changed, but because providers are afraid of federal investigations_

Through all the political noise and legislative battles, A.W. views the situation with a mixture of confusion and exhaustion. She recalls early childhood memories of her son discovering his identity—from being labeled a tomboy at age three to the pure joy he felt shopping in boys’ clothing at age seven—as moments defined by love and discovery rather than politics. To her, the government’s fixation on her child’s private medical journey feels less like policy and more like an obsession with lives they do not understand.

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